Tuesday, September 4, 2012

Make Yourself the Object of Desire: No-Fail Strategies for Creating Sexual Chemistry



---------- Forwarded message ----------
From: Mirabelle Summers <news@meetyoursweet.com>
Date: Tue, Sep 4, 2012 at 6:17 AM
Subject: Make Yourself the Object of Desire: No-Fail Strategies for Creating Sexual Chemistry
To: Jorge <jorgeus.george@gmail.com>


   Hi, Jorge!

Did you know that a major part of creating sexual
attraction is being self-confident? Feeling
socially confident has been PROVEN to dramatically
increase your appeal to the opposite sex.

   Confident people are happier, healthier, enjoy
life more - and get asked out on more dates.

   If you want to learn how to overcome social and
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...

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   Take a second to have a look. Soon, you'll be
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you'll enjoy more dating success, with the men
that YOU'RE attracted to, than you ever would have
thought possible.

   After all... confidence is absolutely ESSENTIAL
to building sexual attraction and chemistry.

   And sexual chemistry is an exciting feeling.
You know - that bubbly, hot, tingly feeling you
get when you really, REALLY want somebody. You
feel "connected" with that person, that the two of
you really "get" each other - and, on top of that,
you think he's damn sexy, too.

   THAT is sexual chemistry.

   Sound like something that can't be "created"?
Something either happens or it doesn't? Something
beyond your control?

   Yes.

   But is that the TRUTH? Is it TRUE that sexual
chemistry just "happens" on its own - that it's
either there or it's not?

   No. That is NOT the truth. There's actually
plenty that you can do to both create, and
maintain, high levels of sexual chemistry between
you and a man.

   I get a lot of emails about this topic. The
main issue for the majority of women who write to
me about this problem is that it's relatively easy
to get men to LIKE them ...

   ... but less easy to get guys to WANT them.

   There is an important difference between these
two qualities of being. When a man LIKES you, he
enjoys your company. He thinks you're a great
person. He might want to date you for awhile, and
would probably even sleep with you if the
opportunity arose - but he's not WILDLY,
IRRESISTIBLY attracted to you.

   That spark - that sexual chemistry - is
MISSING. And it has a big impact on the course of
the relationship.

   Often, the women who experience this problem
are just about perfect at first glance. They have
fantastic personalities. Many are attractive. They
dress well, they have busy, full lives, and they
have lots of friends.

   It sounds as though ANY guy would be attracted
to these women, right? That, not only are these
women easy to like, but that they're desirable,
too.

   But actually, there's a lot more to being a
woman that men see as desirable than simply being
a nice, interesting, and fun person. Sure, these
kinds of people are good to be around, and their
company is enjoyable.

   But when it comes to creating real DESIRE - the
kind of desire that leads to overpowering,
irresistible sexual attraction and lasting romance
- there is more to it than simply being likeable.

   You have to know how to create SEXUAL
CHEMISTRY.

   And that's what today's newsletter is going to
be about.

        ****** CLIENT LETTER ******

   Dear Mirabelle,

   I've recently started dating this new man. I
hang out with this guy a lot.  We seem to get on
really well and have a lot in common. We have a
lot of laughs together, and always enjoy each
other's company.

   We have now seen each other four or five times,
often in a group of other friends as we have a lot
of acquaintances in common (we were introduced to
each other at a party for a mutual friend). And he
clearly likes spending time with me, but despite
this I am finding it hard to tell whether he likes
me as a friend or as "more than that" if you know
what I mean.

   Mirabelle, I am really attracted to this man. I
haven't come right out and asked him how he feels
about me, but I have been calling him quite often
and arranging for us to meet and have coffee, go
on picnics, walk his dog, etc, so that we can
continue to see a lot of each other.

   How can I make him really want me in the way
that I want him? I have made a big effort to be
the kind of person that I would want to date if I
were a man - honest, up front, not needy, funny,
smart, and I do not play games.

   The other day I told him that I didn't like it
when he did not reciprocate my invitations,
because it made me feel insecure and hurt, and he
was very sweet and apologetic about it.  But he
still has not invited me to do anything with him,
even though whenever I call him up or see him he
is very happy to see me or hear from me.

   I would very much like to know how to intensify
the spark between the two of us. I know hot
because although we get on really well I'm still
unsure as to how he feels about me.

   Thank you very much in advance Mirabelle, and
everyone at MeetYourSweet, I know you'll be able
to advise me of what to do and how to deal with
this situation so that he is as attracted to me as
I am to him.

   Thanks again,

   - Joanna (Pittsburgh)

   Okay Joanna, here's what I have to say about
your current situation.

   Obviously, the issue here is that you're really
attracted to this man, but he doesn't appear to be
equally attracted to you.

   Naturally, you want this man to feel the same
sort of irresistible attraction to you that you do
to him.

   Because that element of powerful mutual
attraction hasn't occurred on its own, your
relationship needs a kick-start into sexual
attraction.

   Furthermore, this has to happen SOON - because
otherwise, you're going to become fixed in each
other's minds as "just friends". And when you've
been classified as a "friend", it's a LOT harder
to get UN-classified, and make the shift into the
"potential partner" zone.

   You need to create some sexual tension between
the two of you, and fast!

   So I'm going to give you four steps to creating
exactly the kind of unstoppable attraction that
you want to create.

   The first way to do this is to make your own
intentions CLEAR - but in a SUBTLE way.

   For you to make it clear how you feel, in a way
that creates sexual tension and doesn't load him
down with your hopes and expectations, you MUST be
subtle.

   You say in your email that you make a big
effort to be straight up, and not play games.
Well, that's fine for FRIENDSHIPS. But in dating,
some game playing is actually GOOD.

   It fuels the fire, makes him wonder what's
going through your head, and makes you seem like a
mysterious, intriguing creature who's well worth
the effort of getting to know a little bit better.

   So, step #1 is to create some distance between
the two of you. With distance comes mystery and
intrigue - exactly what you want!

   You don't have to act like you don't want to
see him. What you DO have to do is stop making it
so obvious that you want to see him.

   Try making yourself scarce. Be a little more
distant.

   Don't tell him how you feel about him - even if
you've already done this, and EVEN IF HE'S REACTED
FAVORABLY, you MUST stop. He might enjoy the
flattery, but it's not making him like you more -
and it's not increasing his attraction to you.

   To attract a man, you need to allow him to
WONDER a little bit.

   He needs to be able to wonder what you're
doing, who you're with, what you're thinking, and
- most importantly - what you think about him.

   Give him the chance to hope that you want to
see him.

   Give HIM the opportunity to plan dates for YOU,
put some effort in, and keep his fingers crossed
that you're home when he calls you up.

   These are the things that create a strong
foundation for sexual tension! By denying him the
opportunity to see you so easily, you're actually
creating a stronger desire in him to see you.

   FACT: denial breeds desire. Attraction is
strengthened, not weakened, by having to work for
gratification. Don't worry that by being less
available you'll scare him away - because you
won't. You'll actually make yourself MORE
attractive.

   By giving off the message that you're a busy,
independent woman with a full life, he'll
automatically accord you a high social status -
which is ESSENTIAL to attraction.

   If, as you say, you are frequently calling him
up, arranging to meet, and asking for dates, then
not only are you being far too obvious about what
YOU want out of your relationship, but you're
killing off any potential attraction for you that
he might be fostering.

   Remember: less is more. Intrigue is good. A
little bit of distance and mystery is EXACTLY what
you need here.

   Back off a bit! Embrace subtlety! Give him some
space! Stop calling him! Don't make it too easy
for him. A challenge creates attraction - it's as
simple as that.

   You might object, and worry that if you don't
call him, then he might not call you. You might
not see him. Your relationship might peter out.

   To which I respond ... if the only thing that's
keeping your relationship going is YOUR effort,
then there was never a relationship there to begin
with. This is a painful truth, I know. But it's
better that you find this truth out sooner, rather
than later - you'll save time and effort, and can
move on earlier to your next, BETTER relationship.

   Step # 2: be flirtatious. Make it clear, in a
SUBTLE way, how you feel about him.

   Hinting is so much sexier than coming out and
stating a bald fact!

   Flirting is all about HINTING to him that you
like him - but being elusive and mysterious about
it.

   You mention in your email that you "try very
hard not to play games". To me, this connotes an
innate reluctance to flirt - which isn't healthy
for the development of sexual tension.

   Yes, flirting IS game playing, of a sort - but
of a very healthy, fun kind. And furthermore, it's
absolutely ESSENTIAL to the creation and
sustainment of attraction!

   One great way to flirt is by TEASING. Teasing
is a fantastic way to build strong sexual tension.


   It's all about joking around and giving him a
hard time - but in a feminine and light-hearted
way. You don't want to cause offense or make him
angry, so don't take it too far ... teasing is about
being FUNNY, AFFECTIONATE, and CONFIDENT.

   Start making a little kind, gentle fun of him -
teasing him, but in a playful, affectionate way.

   Touch him lightly when you want to make a
point, or when you appreciate something that he's
said.

   Use a low, sexy voice when you talk to him.

   Be lighthearted, cheerful, and breezy when you
talk to him.

   Step #3: Make sure you're being the most
attractive "you" that you can be.

   Being, and feeling, attractive, is a BIG part
of creating sexual chemistry.

   You don't need to be perfect or gorgeous - but
you DO need to be the most attractive 'you' that
you can be!

   Dress in feminine, flattering clothes that make
you feel pretty and sexy - no scratchy,
uncomfortable materials or constrictive,
uncomfortable seams.

   Experiment with floaty, draping materials that
cling to your curves, not compress them.

   Wear a little makeup. No need to overdo it, but
just enough to enhance your features.

   Try wearing an exotic, enchanting perfume -
this is something with subtle, but strong,
flirtatious connotations.

   Making sure that you're looking and feeling
your best puts you in the right mindset for
flirting and attraction - and it'll ensure that
you're as attractive to him as you'd like to be!

   Step #4. Don't rush into sexual relations too
early.

   Keep some of yourself back - scarcity breeds
desire, remember. The things that we value the
most are the ones we work the hardest to attain.

   Even when you've got him in the palm of your
hand, when you know he's CRAZY about you and is
really, really wanting to take things to the next
level, DO NOT change your mind. You must wait
until you're SURE that he's actually in it for
YOU, not just for your body.

   How awful would it feel if you jumped into a
physical relationship earlier than you'd planned,
simply because you couldn't resist temptation -
and then had to watch his attraction for you
slowly dwindle away? This is what frequently
happens when you get sexually involved too soon in
the relationship.

   Men will often automatically categorize you as
a "sexual conquest" rather than a "potential mate"
if you don't wait until you're SURE.

   This is one aspect of love when you should
listen to your HEAD, NOT your HEART!

   And don't fret. Tension is GOOD for chemistry.

   Waiting a month, or two months, or however long
YOU need to make sure you're not making a mistake,
isn't going to do your relationship - or your
attraction for one another - any harm at all ...

   It will actually do it GOOD.

   Waiting before you hop into bed together is a
fantastic way to make him really, REALLY want you
- and to never take you for granted when he
finally gets you.

   Being patient - no matter how excruciating it
is, no matter how much you like sex, no matter how
much you can hardly resist - is one of the BEST
things you can do in terms of sexual chemistry.

   The more the pressure builds up, the stronger
the chemistry will be.

   Remember, attraction isn't something that you
CHOOSE to feel. You either feel it or you don't.
And if you want to have the ability to create a
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man you meet.

   I'll talk to again soon.

   Your friend,

   Mirabelle Summers

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